I'm sorry that this is causing you so much stress, it sounds very challenging. Unfortunately it's hard for you to help someone who refuses to help themselves. It's good you don't take his moods personally but it does seem to be causing you stress. Is there anyway you could go visit him? It might be easier to convince him to get help in person?
Good luck and I hope that he will get help !
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016