So I should explain this better...fox hoodie is something I would do...you lean punk...does that bother her when you dye your hair get piercings etc...if so focus on that...what you're going to find is for every time there is something you Mom says to discourage it somone else will absolutely love it....these people are xenophilic....they are the ones you want as friends but also it's going to make you wonder if the weight is the same way...some people like a bit of curve....others don't and others don't care it's a whole rainbow of humanity you know....anyway that's what I meant...nothing wrong with stepping outside average...