A possibility: Find a good photographer who specializes in boudoir photography. The truth is that very few of us look good without clothing. If you are willing, find a photographer who is willing to do erotic photography with couples. Neither my wife nor I will ever win any beauty contests. She will never be Mrs. Canada nor will I ever be Mr. Canada. But put us in nice clothes and sexy underwear, and we are all the other ever wanted us to be. That look (and self appreciation) can be captured in photos. Besides which, sexiness is as much emotional as physical, perhaps even more emotional than sexy. I have seen gorgeous women who look like they hate the world, and possibly even themselves. Give me a woman who likes herself, and me, any time.

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