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Old Aug 10, 2014, 08:24 PM
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I often think that I'll die alone because due to my relationship history I've either been cheated on or dumped due to my social anxiety disorder. I do not believe there is someone for everyone, like some magically predetermined person just for each person. I do think however that everyone can find someone who they can have a lifelong relationship with. There are so many people in the world with so many viewpoints, values, personalities, education levels, looks, levels of motivation, etc. that I think people can find someone out for them if they want. I think for some it can be as easy as childhood friends or as much work as finding some long lost person who just seems perfect for you but you have to make it work to get there. So to answer your question, no and yes. No in that I don't believe there is a soul mate for each individual person. Yes in that I think everyone who is interested in relationships can find a special person for them.
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