I don't know who I am. I now seem to be sexually attracted to my job coach from Service Alternatives. Does that make me gay? In high school, I had a crush on my English teacher who's female and there were one or two girls I thought was cute. But, other than that, while growing up, I had crushes on boys. Maybe I'm bi. Although, I guess I wouldn't know because I never had a boyfriend or girlfriend and I wouldn't know until I start dating.