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Jax, it really seems that this situation is more complicated than at first explained. I'm glad you are keeping an eye on your mother. I pray that there will a way to alleviate her pain. I've gone through prolonged periods of back pain, and I'm sure that wasn't nearly as bad as pain people experience from cancer and truly severe injuries.

I wonder if part of your concern with the container and the location is because the situation, taken as a whole, is indeed troubling. This is not about a plastic container of ashes in a garage, and a sweet if somewhat daft older woman who talks to it. It is not about secrets and suicide and worry and love. Wow what a mix! No wonder you are all shook up about this.

((((((((((((((((Jax))))))))))))))))