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Originally Posted by atomicc
Hello and welcome to PC!
Hmm, it sounds like you are definitely having some doubts. Your relationship shouldn't be causing you so much stress, especially that you self harm. Perhaps therapy would help you sort out your feelings? It sounds like you have to make a decision one way or another and you are having trouble doing it on your own.
I hope you can figure this out.  |
First of all, Thanks for replying. I appreciate it.
The thing is I've had all the doubts. I'm happy being with him, more than happy. I've had therapy but I'm moving on the CBT soon to see if that will help. I've made my decision- I'm happy spending the rest of my life with him
. I just need to sort out my head I guess- Cause the thought of spending my life without him scares me- people will say but you might be better off without out and you'll get over the sacredness but I don't want to. I know I would and I still don't want to because Im better off with him- He makes me a better person and I him (i hope). I don't self harm anymore because I made a promise to never do it again but it doesn't stop all the thoughts of doing it.