Yeah and now she's gotten really upset over it all. I told her truthfully about the situations she's put me in and how it has hurt me. She'd say things about my now ex that wasn't nice, she'd abuse others and make me feel uncomfortable. She's very outspoken but I think sometimes just a bit too much.

But now the guilts are being put on me... shes not happy cos i didn't contact her for 2 days when i said i needed thinking time... now it seems its all my fault...