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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Sometimes to get rid of the elephant in the room, behaviors change, then readdressing the past can occur. Yet, harping on what's done, doesn't help moving forward. The elephant in the room is a metaphor for something drastic that has occurred and it's a wedge between each other. Words are usually said, surrounding that issue. To release the resentment is to see from a point forward that communication methods shifted. Not overnight.
Baby steps.
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I think I see what you mean.
You mean to say that we shouldn't dwell on the past, right?
And we should focus on moving forward?
I'm a bit confused. I feel like while it's important to move forward, we should also try to fix the problems we have now. Which might sometimes require talking about past actions.