There is so much estrangement in my family. My grown son and daughter don't really speak. My daughter really goes off on me sometimes. My husband and I struggle. I am really trying to be nice to everyone but I have been catching it right and left. It is especially hard when I get them presents for birthdays and such. Sometimes they are thankful and sometimes I get ignored or criticized. Everything is up and down. Trouble is I am trying too hard to please and tonight I am really suffering for it.