Maybe you need a therapist to move forward. Your posts are about how annoying other people's behaviors are, and yea, I know from myself people do annoy me to no end, but I also know I can never make them do what I want because I'm just me, I can only control me.

If you truly want to do something about a situation you have to make plans (maybe with a therapist) how to change things. Staying at just being annoyed is not good for you. I know some people get into the behavior of complaining about others but then they forgot they need to actually do something too.

Your husband sounds from your other posts like he is emotionally unstable, he is maybe depressed and most likely an alcoholic. If that is the case, he needs help. I know it is very hard to help people who have found their own kind of "help" (alcohol and video games), but maybe you have to show him the way here and tell him where to look for help.

If he really refuses help, then maybe you should distance yourself from him? How about your own mental health, is it better than his? Are you also facing an issue with alcohol? (I'm not trying to be rude here.)