There is no right or wrong way to be trans/nb/gq/intersex/etc.

Feeling dysphoria does NOT mean you are more trans.

NOT feeling dysphoria does NOT mean you are less trans.

Dressing as your assigned gender at birth while being the opposite of that gender does NOT make you less trans.

NOT going onto hormones does NOT make you less trans.

NOT being a size zero does NOT make you less trans.

NOT being out does NOT make you less trans.

You are you, and that's great. Ignore anyone who tells you that there are rules to be followed in order to be considered trans. You are trans no matter your presentation, lack of transition, transition, etc.

And you're great.