I have a question.

I've been having a really rough time. Yesterday my T said that though ive been in therapy for 2 years with her, ive just now (in the last 2 months) have been "doing the work". I felt so offended because I feel like I've been working hard all along. I wont even ask if I should be taking it a different way. I just wonder if shes been thinking all along that I havent been working hard. What if I cant control my current progess. it hurts