Hi all, I am going right now thru a painfull time. My husband and I we were in Europe last month. We had great times. He went back to move from Nevada to Florida and my daughter and I suppose to come end of the month. He started new job there.
On this day we were discussing health insurance over the phone, he promised out daughter a horse( she is 11) and at night we had a small argument over a ebay issue. then 5 h later boom: Voice message via whats app that he want separation and will not buy out tickets back to USA. So we are here, left with 2 suitcases at my parents apartment. i am crushing on their couch..I am out of the German system here. All out stuff is in Florida. He does not react, changed his phone number, moved even out of the apartment we got .. We had problems because this was the 5 move but we are christians. I assumed everything will settle down once we moved and we got back to normality. We were separated the last 3 months, I was packing, he worked overseas.
I am shocked. Don't know what to do. I need to go back to US within 6 months or I lose my green card. We are married 5 years and together 7. I need clothes and stuff. My daughter is stressed out because of the school here.
His email are very angry and mad. He said he does not give me a chance now, in4-6 months???? how I suppose to live with that? I don't have apartment here and it takes sometimes 1 year to find something. Our life in in USA. My husband does not talk to my daughter either. She is hurt, cries... It has been 5 days and he moved again, started his job . he said he is free, He felt like in cage the last 3!!! years...He never talked about that. Separation is one thing and I do understand him, but to leave me here with my daughter and refuses to buy tickets ..thats what I do not understand. Banks ect he changed everywhere passwords ... what I suppose to do now? I was stay at home mom the last 10 years.

please advise. Is this a normal behavior?

p.s. he wrote prior this this emails and said he wants separation but then he said sorry that he was only drunk and felt better now.