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Originally Posted by agenders
So I have a really bad sex dysphoria (means I feel like I should be sexless - have no reproductive system / genitals) and also secondary sex characteristics dysphoria. Any advice on how to deal with this? I bought a sports bra because I still haven't "come out" so there is no binder for moi, so yup.
i heard about a surgery for agender people but I'm still a teen so i dont know. plus i've heard it was kinda illegal on many countries which sucks because somedays i really just keep having ideas on how to mutilate my own genitals and its getting really bad. in fact, i feel like i've become numb.
sorry for the explicit thing i just said, but is this really dysphoria? i feel really numb and disconnected from my sex organs and it makes me feel really gross and ashamed to have them. i think im kind of still having hopes that im not transgender but...
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Hi agenders,
welcome to pc and our community here! Yes, I think I'd probably call what you describe dysphoria - it's how I feel about certain parts of my body.
Only you can decide whether you identify as transgender or trans* or genderqueer....or... or... The possibilities are endless, I think that's actually a good thing. There is a lot more diversity nowadays, and being trans* doesn't necessarily mean that one has to fully transition to the opposite gender.
Have you found Mikah's blog Neutrois Nonsense? They have a post on nonbinary transition that I quite like:
http://neutrois.me/2014/03/06/5-myth...er-transition/.
Nonbinary may not be the way you choose to identify, but it maybe helpful to read about Mikah's experience with the transition process.