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Originally Posted by MacabreMagpie
If you're actively attracted to boys, then you can't be gay - that would make you bisexual at the most. but if you're not actively attracted to the same sex then you're probably bicurious or bisensual. By which case I mean, men fulfil your main romantic/sexual attraction (or will do, once you're older) but you're not against trying things with women. Would that be a less frightening level of sexuality for you?
I really don't think that anyone can OCD themselves into being gay, I don't think you need to worry.
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Yeah, I guess that's less frightening. Thanks for the reply.
I KNOW people are born gay and that its not a choice..
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Originally Posted by krisakira
OK being a girl, that makes much more sense. Thanks for the clarification. I do believe your OCD is playing tricks on your mind. You're not gay, and if you are, is that a big deal? Why are you terrified of it? I hope you are seeing a therapist to address this issue.
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I'm going to talk to my therapist about it on Thursday. Its only my second visit so yeah its nothing I've ever mentioned to her before.
Its a big deal to me because I want to fall in love with a guy. Like I said, I've fallen blindly in love with two boys before. It was magical.
I don't want the ability to fall in love taken from me.
I don't want to be gay because I like guys.
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