[QUOTE=Travelinglady;3932506]

Communication seems better when starting with the written word, otherwise the conversation goes off track. I would like to clarify a few things. She does not put me down, the comparisons are true in comparison. She has never complained about us. She is a very happy and open person with no filter. We get along great, have two children and have what any person would find as lucky. Other than my feeling of inadequatecy we have everything. Also, my self-esteem is perfectly fine with the exception of my sexual short falls.