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Old Aug 12, 2014, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by agenders View Post
So I have a really bad sex dysphoria (means I feel like I should be sexless - have no reproductive system / genitals) and also secondary sex characteristics dysphoria. Any advice on how to deal with this? I bought a sports bra because I still haven't "come out" so there is no binder for moi, so yup.

i heard about a surgery for agender people but I'm still a teen so i dont know. plus i've heard it was kinda illegal on many countries which sucks because somedays i really just keep having ideas on how to mutilate my own genitals and its getting really bad. in fact, i feel like i've become numb.

sorry for the explicit thing i just said, but is this really dysphoria? i feel really numb and disconnected from my sex organs and it makes me feel really gross and ashamed to have them. i think im kind of still having hopes that im not transgender but...
Hello Agenders: Have you seen an experienced gender therapist? If you're feeling "really gross and ashamed" & you're having recurring thoughts of self-mutilation, you need to see a professional gender therapist. Therapy is required for transsexual persons who are transitioning & want to have gender reassignment surgery. And also, the kinds of thoughts you're having now, if left to fester, can lead to major depression, generalized anxiety disorder & self-abusive behaviors. So, at this point, my perspective would be that the first thing to be done would be to get going on some therapy. My best wishes to you! (Keep posting here on PC too!)
Thanks for this!
agenders, kraken1851