If you are waiting for the money in order to file your divorce hiring a lawyer is likely something you want to avoid. But many lawyers do give free initial consultations, would be worth a few phone calls, you would be able to ask a few questions and get some free advice on the divorce laws in your state.
Also I would be collecting all the financial information that you can, just make sure you know EVERYTHING about both your finances, you don't want any surprises down the road.
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