You sound very unique to me, as I don't think I've met women who watch or are even sort of addicted to porn. That tends to be a male problem.

As for viewing men as sex objects...that's all we are basically And, we like being thought of that way by women . Well, OK, maybe it's just me.

I've also wanted to exclude sex from my life completely, or even thinking about sexual thoughts, or girls all together. As you can see below, I have ASD and thus suck at any kind of relationship. I could never chat up a girl, even if my life depended on it. But, I am a highly sexual person, despite being single. The times I've had sex (obviously just a once-off "arrangement" since I've never had a girlfriend) I've realized I'm extremely passionate as a lover, and I've been told that by the women I've been with too, so I'm not imagining things. Sex is something that occupies my mind a lot during the day and could even be an Achilles heel of mine so to speak. But, I CANNOT do any kind of relationship whatsoever. I can't even make friends, let alone romantic connections. I often wish I could switch off thoughts of sex and wanting sex completely, or even become totally asexual. It would help so much, because I'm sitting here, burning with desire almost everyday of my life and I can't do anything about it because I'm a girl-repellent. I also don't want kids one day, because I know I'll be a terrible father. I don't think I'll ever be man enough for it. Actually, I'm like an eight year old boy myself, I am just a big child. So, removing sexual feelings from the equation will help me a lot and I wish there was a way to do it.