My husband doesn't think I should talk to a counselor, he says it's okay, these things happen, in 30 years we'll laugh our butts off about it.

But the fact remains that there is a parenting issue here--getting the kids to fall asleep earlier and the problems with that--that needs to be discussed. New strategies needed. The problem is dh puts the girls to bed and I don't necessarily agree with the routine they have or how late they fall asleep but it's part of our "division of labour" so I don't comment too much on it other than to say they need to go to sleep earlier. He always agrees but then nothing changes.