You all have given me so much good info and support. It also just helps to know people out there have the same things going on and hear what they do to manage it. I am proud of myself for ignoring the thoughts of quitting and getting home and safe before making decisions.

I am going to ask the person who stood up for me to be an advocate and come with me when I bring up the problems in a nonconfrontational way.

Of course part of me want to beat the person over the head with her phone Or at least let her know her plan didnt work but that is not tkaing the higher road.