I'm not aware of anyone who has expressed that they absolutely MUST sleep with their dog no... if you want to be absolutely sure tho, I have a suggestion.

Create a "Must you have your dog sleep on your bed with you" poll in the bipolar forum.

I'm sure that in doing so, and including an excerpt from this thread explaining the situation and your reluctance to challenge your GF's wishes, that you will receive unbiased knowledgable responses.

I personally find it disturbing that she would ignore your weezing and sniffing to go and find her dog.

Our cat just makes my bf uncomfortable, (he's not a fan of cats) and that's enough for me to make sure my furry baby is not on my bed when bf is over.

*Just saying...