@bixkf - Your experience sounds rather similar to mine indeed. I have highlighted my concerns to him multiple times. It always revolves around him not giving me enough time. And i don't think i'm very needy to begin with. I travel very often for work, every other week on average. I no longer stay with him. Iask for him to "chat" with me and sbare his day. I ask for him to be with me for a while when i'm feeling down. I don't expect him to give me the whole night. I just ask for enough time to distract me to let me feel better. But he doesn't want to provide that.