I guess you have to ask yourself how it came to this. I have a friend who likes to flirt because she is missing so much attention from her hubbie. Not that you are flirting, you just might be missing something from your relationship. That should be something to think about like the others wrote. I just know that to even think about kissing another guy romantically would feel so wrong and yucky. I do have a male friend who I go out with some, but I am 32 and he is 64. He is a friend of the family and his wife dies last year. My husband doesn't care if I go out with this freind for lunch or shag dancing. But I am sure if it were a younger man the circumstances would be different.