scott, yes I fully agree with you. But T is helping me getting better which also includes helping me see that I can feel better about myself too..It was nice for me to see this other side of T, helps my B/W thinking, helps me see that people can be whole, theres more to them than just what I think..its not the insights that always help us, its the little "human" intereactions! I think I may retitle an old song "Last night a Human saved my life" LOL