so bring it up to him in an I feel statement. I feel...when...because..and what I would like is.... make sure you just talk aobut the situation and not about him so it doesn't feel like you are attacking him.

I feel (angry, frustrated, overwhelmed) when I come home to a messy house because I have worked hard all day and would like to come home and relax. what I would like is for a little more effort to be put into keeping it tidy.

you could even say you would like if we could put a little more effort into keeping it tidy..........hope this helps......take care........