Thank you guys I will look into it. I know she does have some mental issues (though I am not sure what exactly) unfortunately I believe this is who she is and these days I have no tolerance for anything she says or does and no interest in whether she is putting things on or genuinely has an issue. I will look at what can be done but the moving out part - I have no idea what to do about that. I guess I was hoping she would crack it and leave on her own terms. My partner is attempting to support me by reminding me that I dont have to accommodate her needs all the time and her personal preferences in our household, needs or wants are not before our own. Even small things I find hard to work around. I constantly have the tv on low - as not to upset her in her area of the house. Make sure things are available, I even advise her of where we are and when/if dinner will be sorted or not. I automatically action and make my decisions based on what her expectations were in her home when I lived in it.

Thank you for your opinions and support. I will check out the other forum. I hope I can find a happy medium and come to an arrangement, the moving out part is a discussion I do not want to have