I guess you're right. To heal from something, you first need a little bit of pain or hurt I suppose. I think it's a good thing that the girl does not contact me anymore, because it is showing me she probably never thinks about me and I need to forget about her. But, it hurts so bad, sometimes I just wish I could speak with her again. I've got pictures of her in a folder again. I know I have to delete it, but I can't . Every time I do it feels like I'm losing her again .