Hi MissInvisible, really good things are better for you today

And I guess it all comes down to what works best for you. Doesn't stop you from trying different things as well though, trying to find different things that will help even more,
if you need to

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You can be right about putting off decisions as well...........a lot of people might make different decisions when they're calmer/less under stress/seeing the "bigger picture".........more options......more possibilities................
But
if talking to your friends at those times
might help..........you know they should be there for you if you have that kind of a relationship going on with some of them...........friends should be there for the "bad" times as well as the "good" times. But you still have us to talk to anyway.

Alison