My stepdad is an abuse survivor. He had a physically and verbally abusive stepfather.

He has not laid a hand on my sisters, (although he has wanted to and said it aloud), likes to take away privileges without a second thought, is excessively clingy to my mother and when he isn't, he's cheating on her. There have been three girls in the past three years. He has also been unemployed for almost a year at a time twice.

My sisters aren't able to go many places and right before they do, he thinks up any excuse why they shouldn't and starts to pick an argument.

I'm at the point that I'm going to tell my mother that until he gets some form of help, I'm not coming home.