I have been married to a procrastinator for over 30 years. I can pretty much guarantee you that the procrastinating is just the surface. In my experience, procrastinators love getting all the attention they get when they don't do what needs to be done. The attention is negative attention, but it's still attention. And they are often passive-aggressive personalities. Oh...that's LOADS of fun . I strongly suggest you have a good talk with the man-boy you're dating and find out why he chooses to procrastinate instead of being mature and accepting responsibility for what needs to be done.