How do you tell a new t about this? My old t was an assault counselor, and it came up as a question on the intake, including possible places for it. New t doesn't have that background, so it's not been something I am comfortable telling her. I kinda wish old t was still asking to fill her in on some of this stuff, because it would make it easier to talk about. I know part of its is simply pleasure (like puzzclear though, that brings a ton of shame also), but it's not any easier to talk about. I'm not even sure I could write it down for her. Anyone told their t? How did you do it? How did they react?