Missbelle ,
I have followed every thread you have posted about your relationship with your boyfriend , really I have .
You two have so many issues across the board on every possible level.
Yes he just started going to therapy and that is wonderful and much much needed .
If I remember correctly he has parents near by ? I know finacially you are unable to pay for your apartment alone .. That is a huge problem .. Would it not be possible for him to move back to his parents yet still help you pay for the apartment ? allowing both of you some space to regroup and allow you both some time to emotionally take a break. If he really is wanting your relationship to work as much as you do then he should be doing anything possible to make that happen , even making a temporary move.
The tone of all of your posts really shine through that this relationship is really in shambles .. yes you really want to make this work and you say he does also .. But he cant even seem to deal with your dog that you raised and love beyond words .. Seems like emotions are just so Raw and its impossible to make compromises that will actually stick and work long term right now .
Based off your posts unless something undergoes a major change very soon the resentment is just going to continue and there will come a point of no return and the relationship is just lost.
I am an animal lover big time .. there is no way I could tolerate anyone treating my furry friend in such a manner .... Even that would be a deal breaker for me, yes I love my dog that much .
I hope you are somehow able to find some peace, and soon.
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