Thanks... I know you're right, I still feel... ugh, just blah. And I don't see T again until the week after next, of course. More blah!!!

Let me ask... if your parent changes their phone number and doesn't bother to let you know, can you consider that a pretty clear sign that they don't want anything to do with you? At that point, can you write them off guilt-free?

I do have an old email address for him. But, omg, I don't want to have to be the one trying to chase him down and figure out where he's at. It seems that letting your family know about a phone number change is a pretty basic, easy thing. He chose not to do that.