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alexandra_k said:
hey. i like the abstract conversations about process too. i find that (when all goes well) there is an understanding connection. an adult kind of connection. that is a need i have as well as the more childlike kinds of connection.

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Yes, that's exactly it. I need to have that adult, colleague-like connection with him.

Then there's the child. He takes care of that need, too.

It's all very fulfilling, really. But only in the moment. When I get outside, I'm spinning.

I was reading about the primitive defenses. About introjection. That when something outside dies, you die with it.

I have no object constancy.