Oh no, there was no offense taken.

I was trying to state what you have unfortunately I was somewhat more aggressive in my phrasing. Sorry.

As for the stigma of all mental illnesses BPD (and most cluster B's) also have to deal with stigma that is often perpetrated by the mental health profession itself.

A supposedly running joke is "You don't treat BPDs. You ignore them."

How many of us have been rejected for therapy without even having met the therapist?

Judged on our label/s?

As much as I keep telling myself it's good that they knew they weren't up to the task and left me for someone stronger.

I can't help but feel that maybe I should just give up. I am clearly unhelpable.