My boyfriend & I met 3 mths ago & became exclusive last week. He's 27. I'm 20. When I asked if he was seeing anyone before me, he said an older woman he knew for some time. But nothing serious. The other night, things got strange after he got a text. He ignored it. Red flag? It was that girl he told me about. She was mad after seeing on FB that he was in a relationship. Was she delusional? If they were casual, she'd have no reason to be upset. He told me he liked her except for the age difference. She is 38. There was no future. But after investigating his friends list, she looks more like 28. I told him she had to deal with it. End of story? NO. He felt bad and wanted to explain. Why did he care if they weren't serious? I let it go. But still felt uneasy. Later, I checked his texts while he was in the shower. Initially I thought she insisted for an explanation. But it was him pleading her forgiveness & offering to explain bc he cared for her. She said,"You treated me like a ***** and lied. Never contact me again. I want nothing to do with you." He pleaded more, asking to see her to explain. I grew sick. Aside from the age difference, she was everything he wanted. Again he said he cared. Again she didn't need an explanation. She was done and seeing other guys. He insisted to meet if only to see her & talk. I grew sicker! Am I overreacting? He wouldn't be with me if he cared that much for her. Right? Maybe he doesn't want her to hate him. Idk what to think. Please help.