I did it AGAIN, here on PC. I copped an attitude with someone where there was no reason to. I thought I was being insulted and I got all defensive and nasty.
Why do I do this? Why can't I stop? I hate it when I act this way.
Some say it's because I was a spoiled brat as a child, NO, I wasn't spoiled. It was more like-don't have the time or patience to discipline her-just "yeah, yeah, yeah" her and make her go away.
How do I undo this way of reacting. It's really bugging the crap out of me. I know that I can be a nice person if I can get rid of this awful defense mechanism that kicks in automatically and it pops out of me before I can stop it. Does anyone know how to change one's attitude?
Please help! Or there's no hope for me and I may as well just live as a hermit for the rest of my life with my dogs. My poor dogs have to put up with me!!!! Poor puppies.