I am so thankful for all of the replies that I have gotten . It is so hard when you think that you are alone. Since this happened my husband has stopped watching and has even fully disclosed everything to me which was not as bad as I imagined it would be.

I wanted to address some things that users have said because I realized that though I wanted to put them in my original post that I didn't (Oops!)

1. We had no express agreement that he would not watch porn though he had told me that he had stopped and would no longer do it. He also knew how strongly I felt against it, which is why he hid it in the first place.

2. He has stopped and is now on the road to rebuilding himself and our marriage. It has been 8 days and we are both so thankful for ever day free.