Pink.... This whole thread is like a .... not a land mine but maybe on a smaller painful way. I see things that I relate to in so many ways.

I am glad that your child came out ...

I like your T....

"He told me yesterday that he can feel what I am feeling." That touches me in that he verbalized that. I used to see it in my first T's eyes.. and sometimes this one's but how powerful of a connection.

I will not/have not have kids for the reason that my parents did not connect with me... a conundrum perhaps I was... I feel a mix as I do not think I would be good mommy material. That does not make me any less sad for that valid decision.

The phone thing indeed is interesting... perhaps he is looking for ways for more to come out.

My T does not allow messages on weekends and during the week... he says...messages can not exceed one minute.

Consider yourself lucky.