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Old Aug 17, 2014, 03:55 AM
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I think I would be very uncomfortable knowing too much about my t's mental health, especially if it's a current struggle. I tend to want to take care of people, so if I know something will effect them negatively, I don't say it. This is really counter productive in t. That said, I'm pretty sure previous t had her own trauma issues and eating issues. I know some previous t's have been in therapy, but I never asked why. A few wee open to answering why if I wanted to know, but I chose not to ask. I had know the mental health of some of my very first t's, and it caused a lot of roadblocks for us. I try to stay out of their personal lives as best I can...
I have this problem too, I want so much to care about her, and I know I can't. This is all made more difficult by the fact that I feel certain I could a strong friendship with this person it I had met her in another context.
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