I am often surprised with how therapy works else where in the world. Here T never gives a thing away and its impossible to know anything as a result.
I am thinking I have been with the wrong T from day one at this stage.

it is almost depressing. I am not expecting T to list of their life story's but been a bit open and trusting would help. By the look of it over here T's follow a different line of training.
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