Hello,
I am desperate for sound advice regarding my daughter. Her mom and I divorced 8 years ago. Ever since the divorce my daughter has been acting up for her mom but recently she has been making videos on her iPOD of herself dancing like a stripper, swearing, pretending to smoke, spreading her legs under sheets and showing her cleavage/bra. To my knowledge none of these have been posted anywhere. Her mom keeps giving her the device back within two days of these videos being discovered. Also her mom wants to hide the videos from me. Her mom was sexually abused by her father and when my daughter was two it was found that he touched my daughter but then he committed suicide so we will never know for sure. He was also abused so there is a long history of abuse in their family.

Everywhere else my daughter is a model child and is loved by everyone. I am having problems proving anything based on her mother's actions by lying and keeping things from me. This behavior only ocurrs at her home.

My mother still suspects that there is continued sexual abuse by my dauhters mother. What are the signs I should look for? Why is this only ocurring at her moms house? What steps should I take?

Thank you...