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Originally Posted by Leah123
I think part of the issue is that you've deleted a substantive portion of your earlier, clarifying comments, so the discussion is not going to be as on target with so much info missing.
I wouldn't really call what you'd described prior and deleted memory, but... if it helps you to see it that way, I hope it is a healing process to work through it. My own extensive work in that area suggested such framing was inaccurate and ultimately unhelpful, but I understand how compelling the need is to have it validated.
You deleted the portion suggesting I continue posting among others, haha, so I'll opt out at this point.
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Actually, I never posted clarifying details to begin with. As I mentioned, much of this feels shameful, so I did not want to post about the details. The point of the thread, like I mentioned, was to see if anyone else had similar experiences who wanted to talk about this. I posted one small detail that I deleted (and that detail was only a tiny part of the whole experience) as well as deleting 3 minor comments, one of which is still there because you quoted it.
Yes, like I said, I don't want you to not post on my threads because we don't agree with something. But I have said the intent of my post was to find someone else to talk to about this. It had nothing to do with a need to be validated (although I do have that need in other contexts). However, i'm not sure why it's so important to you to continually say I am looking at my experience incorrectly.
You can continue to post or not post on this thread. It's your choice, and it doesn't matter to me either way. You're welcome to continue articulating your points as much as you feel you need to.
I think I already apologized more than once for submitting a thread that could be confusing without the details. But the point was to find someone to discuss this privately with, not to argue about the correct way to look at my experiences. If I was posting to argue for my point of view, I would have posted the details.