I don't know if it's reality or just maternal transference speaking, but I suspect previous T had too many issues in common with me and my mother to be comfortable treating me. She sometimes felt forced to me, like she was struggling to contain herself. Or maybe I'm projecting. I really don't know.
With current T I know only the few bits that he's told me. He comes across as very together, which I'm glad of. I always felt like I needed to take care of previous T and to try not to annoy her too much. I need to learn how to put myself first, and picking up too much on my T's needs is not helpful to me for the most part I think.