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Originally Posted by cryingontheinside
Its not fair that shes using you. Does she not make love to you at all? If not she is 100 percent using you. I am a female witj bpd and used to only go for older men and i got used and treated badly but i couldnt let go. I did the same kind of klingy and dramatic texts. If their older than you they can mannage to win arguments, turn things around and get their own way.
Is there any reason why you wouldnt consider dating a girl nearer your age? I wish you the best of luck
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Thanks.
Nope, we don't make love. We make out but not love, and even that's only if I initiate it. I think you're right about older people having the upper hand in relationships, although I've met cold people nearer my age too.
Yes, the reason I don't date girls nearer my age is that they're not mature enough for me. I can't carry on a conversation with them. Their worlds are much brighter than mine. I live in a dark place, and they're just not capable of understanding that.