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Originally Posted by Depletion
I don't really want to quit, I think that it is just stomping all over my abandonment issues because my mom was not mentally healthy, and it seemed like that was what caused her to abandon me, and then I'm pretty sure last T abandon me because of her issues. I think I'm just clasic BPD with this where I want to abandon her before she abandons me  |
I totally empathise with this. My mum had a lot of mental health issues too, I think that's why I wanted a male t (I don't trust women not to screw me over emotionally)
From what you say I don't think you need to worry about abandonment from your t, and its great you've recognised the potential pitfall before its has a chance to ruin the relationship. Its a real opportunity to prove to yourself that the pattern doesn't have to repeat itself
