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Old Aug 17, 2014, 04:07 PM
Myotherlife Myotherlife is offline
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You need to be right up front with him. It is NOT OK for him to force or coerce you or anyone into engaging in his fetish, and it's OK for you to be firm about this. I would love to have my wife join me in my fetishes, but she's not interested and there's no way I'm going to force the issue and possibly lose the best partner I could ever have. Your feelings are your best guide. If you don't want to do something, then you don't have to, and your s/o will just have to accept it.

I don't think that you will ever "accept" being a diaper fetishist, for this simple reason: You don't have a diaper fetish! True fetishes are not something that you can choose to engage in. My fetishes kicked in, without warning, when I was about 13. I simply felt, quite suddenly, a dire need to wear panties, and soil them. Time and again, I've have promised to myself never to "do that" again, yet for more than 50 years I have been doing exactly "that". You, it seems, simply have no desire to wear or soil diapers. If you never did it again, your life would improve. Ergo, you do not have a diaper fetish, and no one has the right to coerce you to pretend that you do.

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Last edited by Myotherlife; Aug 17, 2014 at 04:24 PM. Reason: Had another thought!
Thanks for this!
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