Oh yes it is!!!

The worst part is if I recognise these behaviours in others I am the first to tell them where they are going wrong. I read somewhere 'borderlines have enormous empathy and can often advise others exactly the right thing to do but aren't able to apply that advice to their own life!'

Keep us posted on what happens.

Please don't hang on if you aren't being treated with respect!

Whatever issues she may or may not have, doesn't mean she can treat people badly. The same as we shouldn't do to others.